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"Can sex Heal?
Yes" says Dr Reed Moskowitz, director of the New York University
Medical Center's Stress Disorders Services and author of Your
Healing Mind.
"Whatever symptoms a person is suffering
- headaches, back pain, depression - a good sex life may have
a salutary effect on them." Preliminary studies suggest
that sex can bolster the immune system, relieve pain, ease
some types of migraine headaches and have psychological benefits
as well.
The key is in the link between the emotions and
physical health. Negative emotions - anger, anxiety, guilt,
sadness - trigger an adrenalin - based stress response. "When
that happens chronically," says Moskowitz, "it has
a negative effect on our entire physiology, ultimately impairing
the function of the immune system."
The antidote? Positive emotions - fun, excitement
- that sex can generate. "Sex releases tension and turns
off the adrenalin system," says Moskowitz. It is
thought the nervous system then releases endorphins - natural
pain relievers. These, say Moskowitz, "create a healing,
relaxing situation for a whole system, giving it a chance
to regenerate.
Moskowitz is not alone in his belief that
sex promotes good health. "There is such a thing as sexual
healing," say Dr. David Sobel and Robert Ornstein in
their book Healthy Pleasures. Studies have documented the
connection between sex and good health in specific - and sometimes
unexpected - ways:
THE HEART - "A lack
of sexual satisfaction should be considered for further study
as a possible risk factor for heart disease," says psychiatrist
Alexander Lowen, director of The International Institute for
Bioenergetics Analysis in New York City and author of Love,
Sex and Your Heart. In a study of 100 women treated for heart
attacks, 65 reported feeling sexual dissatisfaction before
hospitalization. Another study of 131 men found that two-thirds
said they had experienced significant sexual problems before
their heart attacks.
"Vigorous sex is like a mini-workout,"
says Dr. Alfred Franger, associate professor of obstetrics,
gynecology and psychiatry at the Medical college of Wisconsin
in Milwaukee. A 120-pound man up to 12 calories.
THE IMMUNE SYSTEM- Dr.
Dudley Chapman, clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology
at Ohio University College of Osteopathic Medicine in Athens,
Ohio, conducted a study of women with breast cancer. He found
that those who were content with the intimacy in their lives
had better levels of T cells - the white blood cells that
play a major role in the workings of the immune system - and
lived longer."
Research has shown that stress hampers the immune
system, making the body more susceptible to ailments, from
colds and high blood pressure to ulcers. Intercourse counters
stress and leads to total body relaxation. Through these effects
last for just a few hours, with regular sex you'll progressively
feel less stressed.
PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME
- Sexual intercourse may alleviate the symptoms
of PCS in some women. Blood flow to the pelvis increases five
to seven days before a period, and this may cause bloating
and cramps. "Muscle contractions during orgasm force
blood to flow to the pelvis increases five to seven days before
a period, and this may cause bloating and cramps. "muscle
contractions during orgasm force blood to flow rapidly away
from the pelvic region and back into general circulation,
loosening tightness," explains Dr. Franger.
ACHES AND PAINS - "Orgasm
is a natural analgesic," says Beverly Whipple, associate
professor at Rutgers University's College of Nursing in Newark,
N.J. In studying women suffering from painful conditions such
as chronic arthritis and whiplash, she found that climaxing
significantly raised their threshold for pain. Whiple explains
that during sexual stimulation certain chemicals released
by the central nervous system. "These chemicals,"
she says, "cause a pain-blocking effect."
Researchers debate the mechanisms of sexual first-aid.
One theory is that endorphins activated by orgasm travel to
receptor sites throughout the body and produce a morphine-like
effect. "Endorphins can soothe a multitude of hurts,
any thing from a toothache to back pain." says Teresa
Brady, executive director for the Minneapolis-based Minnesota
Arthritis Institute.
One of Chapman's female patients was suffering
from severe arthritis. After resuming sex with her husband,
she found that her arthritis began to diminish.
INSOMNIA
- Lovemaking is also a remarkable sedative. It
instantly soothes the body and helps relieve insomnia. "Sex
is the great relaxer," says Lowen. "The better and
more vigorous, the easier it becomes t fall asleep."
MENTAL HEALTH
- How important is a satisfactory sex life for good mental
health? Extremely so, reveals an ongoing study, began in 1970,
that has so far analyzed 37,500 adults at San Francisco's
Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. People
with fulfilling sex lives were found to be less anxious,
violent and hostile, and not as likely to blame others for
misfortunes.
Sexual satisfaction may also make you more self
reliant, reveals a 30 year study of 65 men and 40 women by
clinical psychologist Douglas Health, author of Fulfilling
lives. "Over times, spouses learn how to express their
needs, which helps to express their needs, which helps them
become less inhibited, more spontaneous, and better able to
meet demands, " says Health.
Not surprisingly, these feelings spread
to your partner and into your relationship. "A tender
sex life helps bring out in each other the best qualities
we have," says Roger Falge, a marriage therapist in San
Rafel, Calif.
And when that happens, the ills of both mind
and body are more readily healed.
By
Kristin Von Kreisler,
Adapted from Redbook
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